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Post by Meluivan Indil on Jan 9, 2006 0:08:37 GMT -5
I don't think he has any reli's left, i met his mother once, and she was really old. i know absolutely nothing about my father *sniff* i wish i did wirr I'm sorry wirr. That's a hard situtation to be in. And unless you have the money to hire a private detective it might be hard to find out. And they aren't cheap. If you need someone to talk to I'm here. M. |
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Post by wirrawong on Jan 9, 2006 0:21:46 GMT -5
thanks M.
i just think mum should let it out cause she's really the only one who knows my father well. but she's bottling it in. *sigh* when parents do that it's hard to make any conversation even though i think i have the right to know about him. even if he was a *beep*
*sigh* wirr
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Post by Meluivan Indil on Jan 9, 2006 16:11:03 GMT -5
You are right. She should tell you. But I know how parents can be. Some change things to reflect how they want them to be or thought they should be. Then what they tell you isn't always the truth.
I remember alot of things that happened when I was a kid that my mother will swear never happened, because it's not the way she wants to remember it.
So if you ever do get her to talk to you remember to be objective and that it is her version. There could be other versions too. Ones you may never know about.
I bet that didn't help you a bit. Probably made you feel worse. I'm sorry. I can be too much of a realist sometimes. I take the attitude that truth is more important than people's feelings sometimes.
Maybe I better shut up.
M.
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Post by wirrawong on Jan 9, 2006 19:12:42 GMT -5
no no M. i completely understand what you mean, it's hard to be comforting when you're a realist and truth be said, i know how mum sort of feels but i just want her to tell me.
but that won't happen
wirr
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Post by alanna on Feb 4, 2006 6:59:00 GMT -5
well wirr you never know
my dad keeps blaming my mum for everything that went wrong in their marrage and their divorce (they are now officcially divorce and my mum's BF has moved in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
so i am finding it really uncomfortable at my dad's cause he keeps badmouthing my mum and making jokes about her that are not nice or funny adn i have asked him to stop and he just won't listen and then when i say that i don't want to go to his place he blames my mum.
Also he and his girlfriend/fiance have moved into a place together with her daughter (Whome i dislike) and his fiance is preggy.
i really want to have a littel half bro (it' a boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) but i am not too sure bout the daughter.
well this weekend my bro is at my dad's and i am not and i havn't seen his new place and i just basically found out about it even though they moved in like 1 and a half weeks ago.
well it's late and i am tired and i have kid's church tomorrow so i am gonna bed
LUV AL
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Post by wirrawong on Feb 12, 2006 5:50:54 GMT -5
parents, they think they know everything but they can make life really hard for the kids when they have their problems. the only thing we can do is not to do the same thing to our kids
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Post by LadyRiona on Feb 12, 2006 16:22:27 GMT -5
Well, my parents had their 20th anniversary January 26th, and it was their first anniversary apart, ever. >.< Had to suck.
Then my dad went out to California about three weeks ago, was home for half a week before going to Kodiak, Alaska for 10 days. He was home for the weekend, and is now back at his camper, but he'll come home again, like tomorrow afternoon. NO clue why, though. Ah well. So, yeah, part-time dad, whoohoo
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